Each day is a new day, we can add the ☀ SUN to our day … by adopting a sunshine state of mind.

Each of us use different phrases … some are looking in on another persons grief, some are living & flowing with their grief… imagination & reality are subtly different, meaning words used to articulate will be different. Fairly obvious I guess, although likely not articulated well.

Life can & does change in a moment …. A tiny moment.

Holly is now 20, she was 19 when her Dad passed. At the time of his grim diagnosis she was in Australia … she had headed there for a year to work with a gorgeous friend, Emilie.

The chapter where loss appeared wasn’t in any imagined scenario of our personal story books …

The magic that resides within us .. each of us.

Some things in life we would not choose.

When life as we know it …. Changes

Sunshine & blue skies ☀

Grief once it arrives, has to be eternal .. grief evolves, grief changes … I hope & believe it’s a lifelong eternal friend.

Life … it does happen. If it’s OUR life we are living or a life that we happen to be able to take part in … I’m unsure 🤔

Fuelled by LOVE ..

The hustle & bustle of life is all around us, it’s vibrant, fast, colourful & as complicated as it is simple.

A year without you, or should I say with a different you. A year since your seat in heaven was ready, you were not afraid to take it, just not really ready ❤

One to one … when life takes a knock, the one thing that’s guaranteed to help the situation, soften & support it is spending time with someone on a one to one basis. Talking is a lifeline … talking through what is happening, re running it through maybe over & over. Getting the fears, the frustrations into words .. into sentences & out. The magic of 121.

Grief requires careful thought, consideration. The complexity of each situation at different times deserves & responds well when deep consideration is indulged in.

Let it flow ….. let it shine, let it cleanse, embrace the flow.

Christmas decorations done differently this year. With our hearts & souls decorated so differently to 2023. It felt appropriate to do simple .. & twinkle.

The season of JOY is upon us, the smells, the tunes, the jostle & joy.

A huge subject, with at least a trillion different viewpoints. Each grief card that is dealt out by life, is different. The overall strapline may appear the same … the detail is however very different for each person & situation.