The meaning of DATES …

The meaning of DATES …

Associations with dates throughout our year, form our feelings, thoughts & overall experiences on these dates year on year.

The meanings of the dates may not be the same ? We get to decide on the meaning 🤔… our choice. The dictionary is ours to compose, with freedom of thought… it’s personal.

Our dictionary of dates is not to be underestimated, it’s powerful.

Today, on this date 32 years ago, Gareth & I met for the first time. Dec 4th … year on year we would laugh, remember & be grateful of the collection of circumstances that had led us to each other.

Today, on this Dec 4th, has the meaning changed ? No, it’s still the date that set the wheels in motion for memory making, fun finding, life creating. A date to remember & look back … just as it always was ❤

Grief doesn’t need to change the meaning of the dates in our dictionaries. Grief & love are of course connected, Infact grief is love. With life, comes love … grief can arrive because of love ❤…. Meaning many dates can remind us of how fortunate we are to have our hearts filled with love.

The words we use to describe our dates are powerful.

Never waste a date, let the love flow. Focus on the beauty of what was… Dec 4th 1992 was beautiful . Worthy of sparkle ✨ 🥂 & deep appreciation. 

Michelle X